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How To Kiss

2007-06-03T07:21:05+02:00

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One of our most frequently asked questions is....HOW?

How do I kiss him/her for the first time?
How will I know how to kiss?
How do I know when to open my mouth?

Well, rest assured, you'll know. It's not the best answer, but it's the most truthful one.
We're still going to give you some tips and hints for making that kiss a good experience for both of you.

Are we ready to kiss?

There's a flow of energy between two people that is usually easy to read. Do you like each other? Have you had a good time? Do you want to kiss him/her? If you do, chances are he/she does too.
There are ways to make sure. Lean in a bit...get closer. If the other person doesn't pull away and especially if they lean in, they are likely feeling the same way.

How do I kiss him/her for the first time?

Softly and slowly. You don't want to bump faces on your first time out. A sweet brush of lips feels good whether it's your first time or your hundred and first time.
Remember that a kiss is a very sensory act. You'll be close enough to breath the person in, to feel their skin against yours.
Relax!
Be aware of your partner. Is he/she leaning in or holding back waiting for you to move? If they're leaning in, you can gently lay one hand against their cheek and lean to meet their lips.
Begin with your lips closed. Keep it soft and light.
How do I know when to open my mouth?

When french kissing...part your lips slowly against the other persons lips. Make sure they're also parting their lips. A kiss is a partnership and it's important that you only go as far as the other person is comfortable with. Remember that the slower and softer the kiss begins, the sweeter the memory it will leave.
This is a time to go slowly. You're exploring each other for the first time and there's no finish line. It's not a race to see who can get the most tongue in. You can begin by tracing the other persons lips as they part against yours. This is a dance...you can pull your tongue back to see if the other person follows. You can brush the tip of your tongue across the tip of theirs.
This is a good time to pull back gently and look at the other person. A good kiss is full of new beginnings....lips pulling away and brushing back feels good and it lets you both decide whether you want to keep the kiss going.

A kiss should linger. There's a soft tingle and a flutter of excitement that you can't miss if a kiss is good.

Not so good kisses:
Bumpy rides

These kisses are more like a collision of faces than a sharing experience.
Don't go too fast.

Wet Wet Wet

Too much mouth and tongue before the kiss even begins leave you with a bad taste in your mouth.
Don't go too fast.

Peckish kisses

You're not a chicken. Better just a brush of lips against each other than a peck.
Try it against your own hand... peck and then brush and see which one feels better.

Habit forming or habit sharing?
Make sure your teeth are brushed and you smell good
This isn't the time to have someone hooking the gum out of your mouth with their tongue or pulling back because all they can taste is cigarettes or garlic.

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Believe

2007-05-19T03:07:29+02:00

Believe, and see yourself

Believe in the truth,
And it shall set you free.
But where is this truth to believe in?
That only you may see.

Believe in the beating blood,
The refrain of a broken soul
Believe in the effortless dance,
Believe and be made whole.

Believe in what must be,
Believe in what cannot.
And know that whatever they say,
It is yours to believe...
or not.

Believe in justice,
And it shall be.
Believe in truth,
And be set free.

Believe and yet have doubts,
And you shall find a way-
For the truth, whatever it may be,
Is found in all you say.

Believe in love, and you believe in loss-
Believe in power, and you have lost control.
Believe in yourself, and all is as it seems-
For everything is visible, to the eyes of your dreams.
I Believe in Miracles

    I believe in rainbows and golden sunbeams
i believe in hopes and dreams
i believe in that old fable always told of old
That at the rainbows end there's a pot of gold
i believe there's some place beyond the blue
Where the promise of Love and Peace is forever true
i believe in me and you

I believe in

    I believe in having good friends
They keep you up to date
With the latest fashion trends

I believe in telling jokes
I want to laugh regularly
Until I choke

I believe in being serious
There is always an air
Of you being mysterious
Even if there is nothing there

I believe in good sex
It is a good form of exercise
Even though it can be complex

I believe in love
Be it from down below
Or heaven-sent from above

I believe in fate
It is not something you create
It just happens out of the sudden

I believe in luck
But only when it works
When it doesn’t I just mock

I believe in hard work
Not only talk, talk, talk
It is work that earns you the buck

I believe in you
But sometimes do wonder
If all the things you say are true

I believe in good food
Spiced with romance after
To lighten up the mood

I believe in making babies
Then turning them
To gentlemen and ladies

I believe in courage
Strength with sense and not rage

I believe in dreams
But not the ones that make you scream

I believe in God
No ones knowledge and power
Is that vastly broad

And last of all
I believe in me

If I stopped believing
Then life’s wonderful gifts
Would not be worth receiving

i believe in miracles, for i have known a few
i believe in me and you
i believe in miracles, for i have known a few
i believe in me and you

I Believe

I believe.
I believe that He was born for me.
I believe that He forgave me long ago.
I believe.

I believe that I will grow stronger with each passing day.
I believe that my soul is worthy, of the love that we have, should we pray.
I believe that His spirit is within me.
Lest I should falter or fall,
I believe that He rose again to save,
not only for you but for us all.

I believe that my life is precious,
one worth saving, no matter the cost.
I believe He came to save my soul,
no matter the things that I have lost.

I believe in His love.
I believe in His spirit.
I believe in His grace.
I believe in His holiness.

I believe.

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A Reason,A Season or A Lifetime

2007-05-01T11:32:52+02:00

People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.

When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway); and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

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Friends

2007-05-01T04:04:57+02:00

A Friend's Greeting

I'd like to be the sort of friend that
you have been to me;
I'd like to be the help that
you've been always glad to be;

I'd like to mean as much to you
each minute of the day
As you have meant, old friend of mine,
to me along the way.

I'd like to do the big things and
the splendid things for you,
To brush the gray from out your skies
and leave them only blue;

I'd like to say the kindly things that
I so oft have heard,
And feel that I could rouse your soul
the way that mine you've stirred.

I'd like to give you back the joy
that you have given me,
Yet that were wishing you a need
I hope will never be;

I'd like to make you feel as rich as I,
who travel on
Undaunted in the darkest hours with you to
lean upon.

I'm wishing at this time that I
could but repay
A portion of the gladness that
you've strewn along my way;

And could I have one wish this year,
this only would it be:
I'd like to be the sort of friend
that you have been to me.
A Friend Just Like You

I just want to let you know
You mean the world to me
Only a heart as dear as yours
Would give so unselfishly

The many things you’ve done
All the times that you were there
Help me know deep inside
How much you really care

Even though I might not say
I appreciate all you do
Richly blessed is how I feel
Having a Friend just like you

A Special Friends

A simple friend has seen you cry.
A special friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.
A simple friend doesn’t know your parent’s first names.
A special friend has their numbers in his or her address book.
A simple friend brings a bottle of wine to your party.
A special friend comes early to help you cook and stays late to help you clean.
A simple friend hates it when you call after he or she has gone to bed.
A special friend asks you why you took so long to call.
A simple friend ignores your problems.
A special friend want to know about and talk to you about your problems and stands at your side helping you work through them.
A simple friend wonders about you romantic history.
A special friend could blackmail you with it.
A simple friend, acts like a guest when visiting.
A special friend opens your refrigerator and helps him or herself.
A simple friend thinks the friendship is over when you have an argument.
A special friend knows that it is not a friendship until after you’ve had a fight.
A simple friend expects you to always be there for them.
A special friend always wants to be there for you.
A Simple Thank You To A Very Special Friend.

A True Friend

A true friend is always there for you
A true friend will help you no matter ther problem
A true friend is like a sister, she knows your better, than you know yourself
A true friend is someone who knows when you're sad, ans can cheer you up when you need it most
A true friend is someone that can make you laugh no matter what they say or do
A true friend is someone who believes in you
A true friend will stick by your side
A true friend is someone you can call just if you need a shoulder to lean on
But most of all a true friend will never leave you

Friend Ship

Friend ship is a great thing to have
When you're in trouble
Call on a friend
When you have friend ship
You always have a friend
Friend ship is wonderful
Friend ship is amazing
Friend ship is being a pal
Right back at your friend

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Unconditional Acceptance

2007-04-29T02:08:18+02:00

Take time to read this story You NEVER know when you may just be an 'Angel' to some one less fortunate.This is a good story and is true, please read it all the way through until the end! Read this story:- [[I am a mother of three (ages 14, 12, 3) and have recently completed my college degree. The last class I had to take was Sociology. The teacher was absolutely inspiring with the qualities that I wish every human being had been graced with. Her last project of the term was called, "Smile." The class was asked to go out and smile at three people and document their reactions. I am a very friendly person and always smile at everyone and say hello anyway. So, I thought this would be a piece of cake, literally. Soon after we were assigned the project, my husband, youngest son, and I went out to McDonald's one crisp March morning. It was just our way of sharing special playtime with our son. We were standing in line, waiting to be served, when all of a sudden everyone around us began to back away, and then even my husband did. I did not move an inch... an overwhelming feeling of panic welled up inside of me as I turned to see why they had moved. As I turned around I smelled a horrible "dirty body" smell, and there standing behind me were two poor homeless men. As I looked down at the short gentleman, close to me, he was "smiling". His beautiful sky blue eyes were full of God's Light as he searched for acceptance. He said, "Good day" as he counted the few coins he had been clutching. The second man fumbled with his hands as he stood behind his friend. I realized the second man was mentally challenged and the blue-eyed gentleman was his salvation. I held my tears as I stood there with them. The young lady at the counter asked him what they wanted. He said, "Coffee is all Miss" because that was all they could afford.” (If they wanted to sit in the restaurant and warm up, they had to buy something. He just wanted to be warm). Then I really felt it - the compulsion was so great I almost reached out and embraced the little man with the blue eyes. That is when I noticed all eyes in the restaurant were set on me, judging my every action. I smiled and asked the young lady behind the counter to give me two more breakfast meals on a separate tray. I then walked around the corner to the table that the men had chosen as a resting spot. I put the tray on the table and laid my hand on the blue-eyed gentleman's cold hand. He looked up at me, with tears in his eyes, and said, "Thank you." I leaned over, began to pat his hand and said, "I did not do this for you. God is here working through me to give you hope." I started to cry as I walked away to join my husband and son. When I sat down my husband smiled at me and said, "That is why God gave you to me, Honey, to give me hope." We held hands for a moment and at that time, we knew that only because of the Grace that we had been given were we able to give. We are not church goers, but we are believers. That day showed me the pure Light of God's sweet love. I returned to college, on the last evening of class, with this story in hand. I turned in "my project" and the instructor read it. Then she looked up at me and said, "Can I share this?" I slowly nodded as she got the attention of the class. She began to read and that is when I knew that we as human beings and being part of God share this need to heal people and to be healed. In my own way I had touched the people at McDonald's, my husband, son, instructor, and every soul that shared the classroom on the last night I spent as a college student. I graduated with one of the biggest lessons> I would ever learn: UNCONDITIONAL ACCEPTANCE. ]] Much love and compassion is sent to each and every person who may read this and learn how to LOVE PEOPLE AND USE THINGS – NOT LOVE THINGS AND USE PEOPLE. Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart. To handle yourself, use your head. To handle others, use your heart. God Gives every bird it's food, but He does not throw it>into its nest. Today I share this treasure with thee. It's the treasure of friendship you've given me. Send this to everyone you consider a friend!

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My Guestbook

2007-04-29T01:51:57+02:00

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Steal yours Heart

2007-04-28T16:28:49+02:00

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Way To Comfort Someone Who Is Sad

2007-04-28T15:47:33+02:00

There are so many people that for one reason or the other, are sad, alone, and spend many a night in their homes, behind locked doors, and in need of comfort. We walk the streets and might meet a homeless person, his only bed is a cardboard, spread out on the hard concrete. He might have lost his family, or lost his home, or his job, and yet we walk by ignoring him, instead of attempting to comfort him. There are just as many sad people, as there are happy people, and yet, we tend to ignore the sad, and team up with the happy.

STEPS

1. Stop and befriend someone you come across, who is crying, or obviously in need of comfort, and friendship. Offer a helping hand, and an open mind and listen. Do not respond, until they have finished talking. Think about your response, so that you can help them to work things out for themselves. Trying to fix things for others can be very dis-empowering.
2. Offer to help, ask them how, and place a hand on their shoulder. This one simple gesture could allow him to feel less alone, but be aware that touching needs to be dealt with carefully and best done only if invited to do so or checking that it is OK first.
3. Be understanding and compassionate. Never judge them or blame them, even if you feel they should be.
4. Think of yourself, if you were in their place. Perhaps you will meet them in the hospital waiting room. Their loved one might have been in a bad accident, and they might be waiting alone. Sit next to them. Ask them what happened. Feel their pain and show them you do, by your words and facial expressions. Ask them if they will join you for a cup of coffee. They will be so happy, not to be alone at this time.

TIPS

* Be careful when approaching someone living on the streets. Not all welcome strangers approaching them.
* Asking others about their personal problems, might entice them. If they look as if they prefer to be alone, then do not approach them.
* Offer a smile of understanding, to those who seem to be left alone. A smile will help them know that you care.

WARNING

* If they don’t want your help at the moment, don’t give it to them. They might get mad, on top of upset.
* Some people have personal space issues, so if it’s a person you don’t know that well, ask before you hug them.

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How To Make Yourself Feel Better

2007-04-28T15:23:51+02:00

Ever felt miserable, like you don’t mean anything to anyone? Well, think again! You do matter and here are some ideas to make you feel a lot better about your place in the world.

Steps

1. Stop and think about what you’ve got!
2. Call a friend you haven’t spoken to for a long time! Or just one that always cheers you up.
3. Write a letter to someone who lives far away who you haven’t spoken to for a long time!
4. If you have MSN, talk to people who you never usually talk to!
5. Pick up the phone right now and invite your friends over. Go bowling, go see a movie, rent a film, go and get a pizza, go shopping, go play some sport, or just hang out!
6. Talk to that boy that you have a huge crush on but you are never brave enough to talk to!
7. Take some money out of that huge lump that you have been saving and splash some cash!
8. Throw a sleepover and have lots of fun!
9. Go out with your family for the day, go to a wildlife centre or a theme park!
10. Spend a whole day in your PJ’s relaxing!
11. Really get into a good book, don’t let anyone disturb you!
12. Put on your favourite song and dance around like crazy for a few minutes!
13. Do some exercise! Go swimming and try a dive that you have never done before, go to a dance class and try a style of dance that you have never done before, or simply try a whole new sport such as volleyball or squash!
14. Go shopping and find the perfect jeans. Dedicate your whole afternoon to trawling round the shops to find the best denim!
15. Go and dance in the rain! Don’t feel miserable because it’s bad weather, grab your wellies and coat (or just go out in your jeans and t-shirt!) and go and have a splash about in the puddles!
16. Do something you haven’t done for years. Take your friends down to the beach and bury each other in the sand, or make sand castles! Go in the sea and buy ice cream!
17. Be brave and go on that rollercoaster that you could never pluck up the courage to ride!
18. Write a poem or a story. Unleash your creative side!
19. Do something extreme, like snowboarding or canoeing!
20. Remember that life is great, live like there’s no tomorrow!
21. Go to wash the face, drink a cup of warm milk and straight to bed.

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